I read a news post about a celebrity couple going thru a split. My initial response was sadness. The husband allegedly stated that they were only friends, as if apologizing for some lack in the relationship. The more I thought about it, I wished I could tell them, “All is well.” Friendship is the foundation, built on trust and knowledge. Perhaps the “spark” was missing, but the main ingredients are in there. “Please don’t give up!”
When I make spaghetti, using pasta, sauce and meat, I add the spices last. You already know where I’m going with this. Once I add a few spices, I stir, sample and add more spices until I get that “taste!” Sometimes that’s all that’s needed in a marriage-a little spice like adding more love and kindness to the relationship.